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Advice needed on university choices

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 20:57

Hi, I am looking for some advice for my daughter regarding what universities might not be worth applying to for a state school pupil for courses in the following areas economics/finance/actuarial science. She would love to go to a highly rated university but is worried she won't be considered for some because she is from a state school rather than independent school and doesn't want to waste her choices if there is very little chance of her getting in. Does anyone have any advice or personal experience at all?

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MariaVT65 · 14/08/2023 22:22

Op, i don’t think you need to worry about the state vs private issue based on those stats. In my personal experience, it’s less a case of not being accepted, and more a case of state pupils being less likely to actually apply for uni. More of my friends who were private went to uni. More of my friends who were state educated didn’t apply for uni and went straight to work.

Just to add, many people actually do a different degree and then find a natural path to finance. My DH did physics at uni and got a place on a grad scheme for finance.

My brother did economics at york uni and found it ok.

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:24

thaegumathteth · 14/08/2023 22:06

You really seem like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder OP. I went to Edinburgh Uni, from a terrible state school and before contextual offers.

My dc go to state school and ds has just got 4 As at higher. I'm not telling him not to apply anywhere based on some misguided notion that he shouldn't because he went state school!

Really, just go to open days, get a feel for places. Let her decide.

And well done to her on her grades! I wish ds had done a 5th higher but he was resitting a N5.

I don't have a chip on my shoulder as far as I am aware, apologies if it seems like thar, my communication can be a bit hit or miss because of my ASD. I don't have anything against independent education, I was just trying to see if there were unis it wasn't advisable for her to apply to, sorry if I caused offence.

I think I may have let myself be influenced too much by someone I had a conversation with and some articles I read as I tend to read things as fact rather than opinion and I need to remind myself not to do that.

Thank you for the advice I shall not mention any concerns to her and let her make her own choices!

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jlpth · 14/08/2023 22:28

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 21:10

When you look at statistics though only 7% of pupils attend independent schools in the UK , they take up a much higher % of spaces than that at some universities. I know some universities are trying to improve this but wasn't sure what universities or whether some were just doing it through the deprivation index scores which we don't meet.

It's not 7% in private for sixth form. It's much much higher, more like 25%. No top university would discriminate against a state school pupil anyway. they are falling over themselves not to look elitist.

SabrinaThwaite · 14/08/2023 22:29

I’d also be leaning more towards staying in Scotland, not just because of the savings on fees but also because she may well get unconditional offers with 5 As at Higher. English unis will likely offer based on both Highers and AHs, so it would be more pressure in S6.

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:29

Coriolise · 14/08/2023 21:53

St Andrews is mostly Americans, Chinese and English students as they like that extra funding so they don’t take many Scottish students. But Edinburgh and Glasgow are both fantastic Universities that will take lots of Scottish students. I agree Dundee isn’t strong for her subject area, but take a look at Stirling.

Thank you will have a look at Stirling, it isn't an area of the country we are familiar with so maybe a visit would be worth it!

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SabrinaThwaite · 14/08/2023 22:31

Stirling Uni has a lovely campus - well worth a look.

AndyMcFlurry · 14/08/2023 22:32

Anoooshka · 14/08/2023 21:58

Glasgow does a BSc in Finance & Mathematics. This would give her a good grounding in both subjects while allowing her to go into actuarial science at the end of her degree.

This is one of the best courses in the country
https://www.hw.ac.uk/uk/schools/mathematical-computer-sciences/departments/actuarial-maths-statistics.htm

@Universitynewbie you need to get over your private/ state school hang ups, you are woefully out of date. University admissions officers REALLY don’t care, they just want the best applicants .

Your Dd needs to do her research and go to open days at as many Scottish universities as she can. Check out all the courses on offer within her area of interest. Ask good questions.

It’s crazy to go down south and pay all that extra money unless you have no choice / have money to burn / want to study a very unusual course.

Why on earth would you want her to have a year less university education that most other kids ? Don’t you think education is a good thing ?

Do you think she will hate being a student ? If so she should look at apprenticeships instead. She can still get a degree part time.

What is your Dd studying in 6th year? She could get unconditional offers from some courses with AAAAA. It’s certainly a good basis for S6.

Actuarial Mathematics & Statistics

About the Department of Actuarial Mathematics & Statistics in the School of Mathematical and Computer Sciences at Heriot-Watt University, Edinburgh.

https://www.hw.ac.uk/uk/schools/mathematical-computer-sciences/departments/actuarial-maths-statistics.htm

thaegumathteth · 14/08/2023 22:32

No offence @Universitynewbie at all . Wasn't really a criticism more just a nudge into a wake up call. As you say, take other people's opinions with a (barrel) pinch of salt!

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:34

SmartHome · 14/08/2023 21:56

The stats about "only 7% of pupils attend independent schools in the UK , they take up a much higher % of spaces than that at some universities." Which universities? How much higher percentage? When you normalise for many independent schools being selective and offering generous bursaries and scholarships for very clever kids from non-wealthy backgrounds (so they get a much higher proportion of kids who will want and be able to go to university) and also for contextual places (which are not offered to the wealthy private school kids you are referring to) I don't believe there is a significant discrimination either way nowadays. It may interest you to know that many parents of kids at private schools are now complaining that the private school kids are being discriminated against, because of contextual offers and state school quotas.

For example, my son goes to a private school with a very mixed demographic. His offers for the course he wants to do were AAA-AAB. His friend, who is on a full bursary, and lives in a deprived postcode, needs ABB-BBB for the same courses.

I think the bit you quoted was maybe for Oxbridge/Cambridge/Bath, sorry can't remember what other unis I looked a the statistics for there.

Yes I understand the concerns for those parents of independent schools too, there are a large number of pupils in state schools who don't qualify for contextual offers and I had managed to get myself concerned by reading articles and being influenced by someone else's opinion that daugjter was neither an independent candidate or eligible for a contextual offer(I have asd to tend to take things as facts if I don't concentrate hard enough on telling myself that everything isn't as black and white as that but I have to be very conscious otherwise I slip up)

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:35

Coriolise · 14/08/2023 21:58

University Edinburgh economics has a year abroad too….
https://www.ed.ac.uk/economics/study-with-us/undergraduate/year-abroad

Thanks for all of your suggestions will get daughter to look at them tomorrow, super helpful 😊

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:36

Anoooshka · 14/08/2023 21:58

Glasgow does a BSc in Finance & Mathematics. This would give her a good grounding in both subjects while allowing her to go into actuarial science at the end of her degree.

Thank you, will get her to look at this!

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Coriolise · 14/08/2023 22:36

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:29

Thank you will have a look at Stirling, it isn't an area of the country we are familiar with so maybe a visit would be worth it!

Open days are great! They really helped my DC make a decision.
https://www.stir.ac.uk/study/visit-us/undergraduate-open-days/

Undergraduate Open Days | Study | University of Stirling

University of Stirling Open Days. Attend one of undergraduate open days to explore our beautiful campus and get a taste of what life as a Stirling student is really like.

https://www.stir.ac.uk/study/visit-us/undergraduate-open-days/

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:37

cestlavielife · 14/08/2023 22:02

If she predicted good grades she should apply for whichever uni she likes
Please encourage her to aim high
If you say " not for kids like you" that is awful

Lovely advice, thank you

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:38

celestebellman · 14/08/2023 21:59

Your concept of who gets into which universities seems a bit misinformed - Edinburgh, St Andrews and Glasgow are all perfectly valid options for someone with five As at higher. It's totally irrelevant whether she went to state school or private school - as far as I am aware outside of Edinburgh and Glasgow (possibly other urban areas) most Scottish pupils are state educated in any case. Don't limit her choices due to some misguided inferiority complex. I went to Edinburgh (admittedly a while ago!) from a state school as did/do many others. The advantage of private school is increased chance of getting the grades - if she already has them it doesn't matter.

This is good to know, thank you. I won't limit her choices :)

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Highdaysandholidays1 · 14/08/2023 22:38

OP, don't worry, universities are a minefield to navigate and I think it's great you are asking on here and getting more information. Don't go off a family member or friend's opinion unless they work at a uni or know that subject area or best, a combination of both. Look at the high-scoring unis in the league table for those subjects, and go to a couple of open days with your daughter.

There are no unis that you should take off the table because you perceive differences between state/private pupils, private school pupils are over-represented in the uni system for a whole complex of reasons and if anything receive higher offers. As someone else has said, your dd may qualify as a widening participation student if you or your husband did not go to university, it's not just done off postcode/deprivation indices. Each has its own criteria, so you need to check for offers, my dd received two out of five offers slightly lower due to this.

Also, you mention you have ASD, I don't know if your dd has ASD or is neurodivergent, but many students are and this is again something you might like to consider- is there good support for students on the spectrum? There have been threads on this in the past. Universities have to provide support, but some are better at this than others, and it's good to hear from other parents and pupils.

Good luck with it all, your dd sounds like a great student and I think with those grades she'll be able to go somewhere good, and you are a supportive mum which will also help her enormously.

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:39

Youonlygetonelife19 · 14/08/2023 22:05

Agree with other posters, actuarial science very narrow. Would look at applied maths courses, statistics (Glasgow does that) or MORSE or similar.
And would prioritise Scottish universities. Remember all the interest on any loan, soon adds up!

Thank you, will take a look ar all of these options

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Coriolise · 14/08/2023 22:39

Hey OP, I noticed you said you have ASD, does your DD have ASD as well? If so, then she may be eligible for DSA and priority for Uni accommodation choices. Make sure at open days you chat with the SEN staff - they will have a table there and you can make contact and she can get known to them and get set up for support through the application process and then matriculation and during study.

gogomoto · 14/08/2023 22:41

Has she done advanced highers at all? For English universities they usually require some, with the degrees being a year shorter they often require them or to do a foundation year

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:42

SmartHome · 14/08/2023 22:11

You have come across badly, in all honesty, but you clearly want the best for your daughter (like we all do) so it is great that you are doing the research to find out what universities are really like now. It hasn't been like you have been led to believe for decades so I'dd also encourage you to take the chippy element out of it and give your daughter the confidence to apply anywhere she fancies with her really excellent grades, as she is clearly very clever and able which what the unis care about. I'd say lots of open day visits and chats with admission people there will do a lot to reassure you.

I am very sorry, I didn't mean to come across badly, I was just trying to ask what I thought (misguidedly) was a straightforward question, I don't have an opinion either way on state or independent schools and I didn't realise asking the question would upset people as I had tried very hard to word it so it was just specific to my daughter. Apologies again as I truly didn't mean to cuase upset or offense was just feeling very anxious about the whole process and what to choose

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:44

Coriolise · 14/08/2023 22:13

If your DD is first in family to go to Uni, she should be eligible for contextual offer as part of widening participation. She will be highly sought after by top unis.

I will look into this thank you, she has a cousin who has just gone to uni but we are not close (not sure if that counts or not)

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:45

clary · 14/08/2023 22:15

Honestly OP please encourage her to apply where she would like to go. I agree with others, I would stick to Scotland for monetary reasons tbh.

Friend of DD's had an offer for Edinburgh and mate of DS2's is at Stirling. Both state school educated. I don't know bags of ppl at Scottish unis bc of the fees thing (ie an English person would be paying fees) but please please don't run away with the idea that Edinburgh only admits students from private schools. It's certainly not the case.

Thank you, I will definitely just let her look and apply for whatever she fancies

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Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:47

messycupboard · 14/08/2023 22:19

I don't think actuarial science is too narrow if that's what she wants to study. Heriot Watt is the only Scottish University accredited to offer exemptions from actuarial courses which would definitely boost her starting salary.

A number of English universities offer the same.
Even if she decides not to continue with an actuarial career she'll have a strong degree in applied maths with finance so hard to go wrong if that's what she's interested in. Totally different to a pure maths degree.

Thank you, I will get her to look at this.

@londonmummy1966 thanks, I will tell her to look at all of those

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Runnerinthenight · 14/08/2023 22:50

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:42

I am very sorry, I didn't mean to come across badly, I was just trying to ask what I thought (misguidedly) was a straightforward question, I don't have an opinion either way on state or independent schools and I didn't realise asking the question would upset people as I had tried very hard to word it so it was just specific to my daughter. Apologies again as I truly didn't mean to cuase upset or offense was just feeling very anxious about the whole process and what to choose

Listen hunny, please don't listen to the horrible criticism - it's abundantly clear that you are trying to negotiate a system you have no knowledge of, and want to do the best for your daughter. There are some rotten people out there!

You didn't cause offence ONE BIT and please don't think you did for a second!

Your DD has got great results! Can she access advice from her school? She would be a lot better off financially going to a Scottish uni, because of the no-fees thing. Two of my three have studied locally as the fees are half of the fees in England.

If she did want to spread her wings, can I suggest NI? Queen's University has a great reputation, and is purely a 'grades' uni (as my eldest discovered to their cost when we thought that her high grades in music exams would have compensated for her dropping a grade in one subject!) and Ulster has a fabulous brand new campus in Belfast city centre, and is moving up the rankings.

Coriolise · 14/08/2023 22:51

Universitynewbie · 14/08/2023 22:44

I will look into this thank you, she has a cousin who has just gone to uni but we are not close (not sure if that counts or not)

Cousins do not count. It’s parents or grand parents.

clary · 14/08/2023 22:52

OP can I just say that you do come across as someone who is desperately keen to support their daughter and make sure she does the best she can... and who perhaps doesn't know a lot about how this works. That's fine. No need to apologise. It's great that you have asked here for info and can now share a positive story with your DD. Very best of luck to her.