@Lovecatsanddogs Yes I've seen that before and it's exactly that which helps me trust the process and believe that ultimately their decisions are likely to be the right ones. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't support DS if he chose to reapply if unsuccessful.
@bendmeoverbackwards, you could make yourself mad worrying about things like that. What if you had encouraged her to consider the alternative and then later worried that you'd been too influential? Who'd be a parent? Damned if we do do and damned if we don't.
Also I don't think it matters tooooo much if our DC aren't sure about 2 of our choices unless the first 3 are very ambitious options, as soon they'll be having to chose either just 1 choice to accompany Oxbridge as firm, or 2 others as firm and insurance. DS isn't too bothered about his 4th or 5th choice and I'm pretty confident he doesn't need to be.
@MatureStudent21 Interesting! It makes me think that they load everything on in the days leading up and press send at the end of the week? But truly I'm clueless.
@HuaShan that link isn't working for me. Might it be behind a paywall?