@MillicentMartha
Ah, don’t feed trolls. I got tempted earlier, sorry.
Oh give over! Happy to go back to lurking but won't be called a troll for pointing out that most young adults (exc SEN) should be capable of making appointments, packing, etc before they head off to university.
And still want me at the dentist at 21. We go for lunch after. It's called having a lovely relationship with your kids I thought
Unless your NT 21 year old has a severe dental phobia, I don't understand why they'd want a parent there. Are you sure it's not a case of them knowing you want to be there and not having the heart to tell you no?