Are people planning to have "what if?" discussions with DC before results day, or just wait and see what happens?
From my experience with DS1, it was useful to have had a discussion in advance with him before the emotion of results day hit, so e.g.
- how keen are you to go to uni THIS year?
- are there any other variations/ combinations of your course you might accept?
- would you consider resitting any exams? (this is a more complex question this year!)
- is there a shortlist of 'other' unis you'd consider going to, if you don't get into your firm/insurance
- if you took a year off to reapply, what would you do for a year?
You want to avoid the risk of DCs panicking and accepting an offer they are lukewarm about in clearing.
Be aware that there is a lot of pressure on them - they see all their friends updating their social media statuses: "Off to Durham/ Yay! Going to Warwick!/ Oxford here I come!"
I can honestly say DS was devastated by his results and we had to scrape him up and coach him through the clearing process (school were utterly useless
).
Thankfully it was a uni he had been to see, so it wasn't completely unknown territory.