Hello this is my first post. I lost my husband earlier this year to pancreatic cancer. My only daughter has always been selfish and likes her own way.She has 2 sons , one at work and the other as just started senior school.My daughter and her boyfriend both work. Now the thing is , she never asks if I can pick my grandson up from school, she always says I need you to do this or that etc. Im so tired as at the moment as I am only sleeping 4 hours a night, every night since I lost my husband. I am also fed up with her remarks of when she has grandchildren she will be there looking after them all the time. So trying to make me feel guilty.