I have 7 grandchildren under 4yrs old, 4 different mothers and none in relationships with my sons anymore. One mother is constantly dumping her 2 on my son saying she's not coming back for them etc. She does collect them the following day and social services are involved. As my son works full time it's me that ends up having to look after them. My son took 4 weeks off work over Christmas to look after them as she dumped them on him. He can't have anymore time off work now. Due to having them so much I just don't have the energy to look after my other grandchildren which is causing problems with my other sons and their partners.
I'm just so fed up of it all and exhausted. Social services are no help, they just keep trying to get my son to have his kids more which he can't.
My son has his own house but because he leaves for work at 6am I have to have my grandchildren over night and during the day until their mum decides she wants them back.
I just don't know what to do anymore but I know this can't continue.