I could read very well at 2.5 (well compraed to my peers LOL- wasn't onto Tolkein until 7)
My needs related to that could have been met by an increased library resource and getting some support to the kids weilding knives in class in all honest truth. These days those same kids might well have a label (thiniing of a specific case) of ADHD and offered help through SEN system.
MrsT I almost cried with your last post . I alwasy feel guilty asking for X or Y for ds1, becuase I am aware of the impact on the ther children. But I am also aware of the possible outcomes of not meeting his needs- which would be dependence, exaccerbation of the anorexia he already has, possible prison (identified by school as a risk) or even suicide (not unknown in HFA / AS).
It shouldn't be the case that kids with SEN have to almost outwit their similar peers through the stetement system in order to get the things they need so badly, or indeed that the funds needed for G&T kids aren't there.
Whenever I look at the frankly bizarre 'environment impreovemenbt#schemes in the city I wince, or when i watched three men (!!) planting a pot plant on civic centre funds the other week.... in two weeks time those plants will be dug up and replaced (its a constant cycle atm for Britain in Bloom) but that might have bought 30 minutes TA time for a child who could benefit, or extra library books. We had to take an amendment reading 'DS1 benefits from a routine' to panel to be added to the statement fgs- I dread to think how much that costs, I have 10 pages of related paperwork sent twice here though, pluss staff time.
There is a sector who should get access to the SEN system though, medically ill children. there were two in ds3's class- one with epilepsy and one with terminal cancer- FFS, neither qualified for extra support despite clearly needing it. They benefitted from ds3's TA (supposedly 1-1 but how evil would you have to be to complain?), now he's gone I am awaiting a call from a Mum at the weekend to help her form a strategy to gettting the one with epilepsy ti qualify fir a statement, as it is affecting his learning now.
LAst weeend I lsitened for a while to a distressed Mum whose son needs a SNU place but might miss out on one next term simply becuase the LEA frgot to put his case to panel twice- all apeprwork there, just forgot.
beleive me, if I had G&T kids I;d want their system as far away from the SEN one as possible.