If there are national athletes who compete internationally, schools are full of grades 7-8 in both instrument from year 5 then it is a very very special school. I will do my research tonight.
To be honest, I am in between, I dont want to be a tiger mom, I want my daughter walking home from school everyday at 3.30. Have plenty of play time with her friends or her sister after, only playing silly things, arty, messy. Then could sit down for her piano when she feels she likes it, or play on ger violin. Then evening is full of catch up for me with dinner then bed. I am only hoping all studying should be done at school in primary. Might be some little more for 11+ later but not like I have to teach my child and give her work for her to be happy that she is being challenged.
Grade 7-8 in music at 10 for 2 instruments means the child has to start working 1-2 or even mote hours aday from 5 years old and if any school is full of these kids then how do they find time to learn other things, to play or just to not doing anything and being silly as they are not even 10 yrs old yet.
I came from Asia and born in the capital and there isnt much green/park around me. Everyone around me is always very busy, competitive and work hard. Too hard, kids tutor from 5 yrs old for foreign languages, music, all school subject. They are well trained from young age and they are all the same-excellent. I am in between. I dont want my child to have my childhood however she is very bright, I should help her or make sure she has enough help so could reach to to her standard aim for excellence and love learning, being stretched