Moi? Why I'm SHINEY............

[Mouseface]

S - Sexy
H - Hot
I - Ingenious
N - Notorious
E - Enigmatic
Y - Y do you ask!

Welcome to the something thousand and something thread of the Shineys.

We chat about health, diet, exercise and cock cake.

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I'm Mouseface, I've lost 8lb now since joining the clan and hoping to maintain it for the future.

Oh Jet, take it easy lovely.
Must be bad to have fainted, you poor thing.

DS2 is watching Shrek and I am trying to talk myself out of going for a run when DH gets home. But I need to, don't I? 2 weeks until holiday...eek!

you just take it easy as well Lizzy, if it is as hot where you are as it is here - i think that probably paid a part today - so hot and stuffy!

I think you are brave running in this heat

I realised this morning that it is now a year since i started my tablets. But, as lately i think i have kind of given up with them, i am going to take a break from them and try the normal healthy eating/exercise method Maybe for a month or two, just to see how it goes and to give my body a break. I actually think that will boost my motivation, as i will be scared to eat the wrong things for feat of weight gain - rather than thinking it doesnt matter as i wont absorb the fat anyway

It's not that warm here today, Jet. I have no excuses!

I think that's a good idea, you have done so well and look fab, am sure you can "go it alone" for a while, and you can always go back on them if needs be.

I'm back from the hairdressers and look like this

but not quiet as short and with grey eyes......

Trill - I love you really, I'd never delete you as you're far too gorgeous!! And I'd miss drooling over you!

Hells and others - agreed that I should go back to my Gp and kick ass. I'm going to speak to my physio first and ask him how best to play this.

Fookers!!!!

Jet - sorry you're poorly Do you have blood in your urine? And is the other thing protein (in your urine) or do you have peritonitous? Or something else entirely?

And agree with Lizzy about maybe going it alone if you've done so well

Double - what time do you land in blighty???

Not quite Double, but it's alomst as short as that! That's quite late? Will you manage to squeeze a cheeky drink in before you fall on your feet!!?? You must be knackered!

SAF - picture G.I. Jane, just a tad longer!!!

I just can't get motivated today. And I'm pissed off with DH - He called me some very nasty names after I asked him to stop swearing at DS.

I may have to cart him back to the GP but it was such a struggle last time.

Bollocks, ignore me I'm just venting.

Soory Mouse, your hair sounds fab.

Sorry? Never mind my bloomin hair... are you ok?

Bitter - sorry DH is being difficult again - do you think this is because he's still struggling with the bereavement - thinking in terms of explaining rather than excusign his behaviour...

Jet - sorry you are poorly, plenty of rest and fluids!

Mousey - maybe physio can recommend a nice doctor, after all we have this "marvellous" choose and book system.....

Vinny - maybe the looks thing could grow on you with your nice doctor - did he have a wedding ring???

TC - That's what I'm hoping. Sits better with me than thinking I'm married to a twat who treats me like dirt!

I'm fine, really. Just a bit fed up.

mouse - it was phosphates I knew it didnt sound like it ended in proTEIN, more like puss - but then i thought, how would you have puss in your wee I had to ring the docs back anyway, so i asked the receptionist

I bet your hair looks lovely!

Bitter - sorry your DH is stressing you out Are you ok?

jet - for a moment I thought you meant your ADs and was about to give you a gentle bollocking - but if it's alli/orlistat, then I think that's a very sensible idea indeed.

you may remember ladies me posting yesterday about a flowershop mistakenly put a card through my door.... well they have sent me a lovely bunch of flowers by way of apology(!), will have to get a photo up onto facebook, the message says "these ones really are for you" .

Just a quick hi, not properly caught up yet.

Reading with infants at DD's school on a Friday afternoon... they rock!

Yank.. I love you.. keep on keeping on Lady, we have a date to keep (((( )))) xx

Mouse.... for you, how frustrating all round. Have some angry sex and then plan your next course of action...

Hells... you are gracious and beautiful lady, . 3 years ago I was beside myself with how to deal with DS's issues. But the village we live in gets a lot of troubled yoof (not sure why, apparently the council sticks them together). Bit by bit it just got easier. I think Mother Tiger kicks in and I hope I am fair but they are left in no doubt where they stand if it recurs. Most of the ones I have spoken to leave him alone, and strangely 'nod' to me now , but the ring leader last night I think does it to show off and make himself look big. He's quite a bit older than DS and very hefty so he really hurts DS.

I love the way you talk of your DC's ID .

bitter.. that is NOT on. Is it out of character because I am sorry but that makes my nerves jangle. He needs to deal with it IMO. I don't like to interfere but some lines shouldn't be crossed. (( ))

Jet honey, take care. Have a chilled weekend.

I smile a little because we were in derby and DS had a helium balloon and was doing the talking like a cartoon character thing. He inhaled too much and said 'I think I'm going to faint in a squeaky voice before he collapsed . [heartless mother emoticon]

DD has gone to weirdy man's her friend's house. I think he was trying to give me post relationship break up advice the other day. . And he came into my house without me inviting him. I was upstairs and he 'popped in' to get something. He makes me feel like a cat that is being stroked the wrong way. Tempted to hiss and spit... which is just not me.

Well, as I have kept it short and sweet for a quick hello, I shall go and have a cup of tea.

Hi to all I missed. snogs, hugs and xx's to all.

he still needs a bit of an arse kicking though , bitter, as it's not right making you feel bad too, he needs to find better ways of dealing with stress/negative feelings etc.

just typed long response and lost it.

bitter - he swore at your little ds? Actually doesnt matter how old your dc, swearing at them is definitely out surely. And to call you bad names is terrible (im hoping that wasn't in front of your dc!!).He needs his arse kicked

What was his bereavement? I think I missed that.

We do have to make allowances, dp was a total pig at the start of our relationship, drinking, drink driving , talking to other women just a total arse.

He'd lost his dad very unexpectedly of a heart attack at 62 i think he was, then his grandfather then his gran all within two moths, and then his sister had accused his (now dead) grandfather of serious abuse from the age of 2 . dp was devastated. Still not totally over it now, don't suppose you ever are.

I cut him slack for that reason, but he's a changed person now. And anything that involved the dcs would get a firm kick up the arse. Can I punch him for you?

Will send you unmelike hug x

two months not moths

ID [frown] well I don't like him! Tolerate because he is DD's friend's Dad. He gives me the creeps and puts his ex down, even infront of his DD's.

I am crap with men. Completely crap. Being married was great from that point of view because I just switched it all off... married=safe. (or it did). DC's Dad was quite jealous so I got to paranoid to talk to a lot of men in the end anyway because he figured everyone was after me and that somehow I must have lead them on.

I have men issues the depth of Loch Ness, I didn't need any projecting on me. I am OK with men I feel 'safe' with but otherwise my barriers are thick titanium bomb/bullet/charm/flirt proofed with barbed wire on. Apart from sparkly eyed customer who is another story all together.

i second everything fluff says (apart from the grandfather bit)

TC - see, that's what you get for being nice and being honest, karma!

Double - sounds well planned and yes, go shorter, go shorter!!!!

Mittz - I know re the docs...and may have a fiesty shag later! And can I just say, that is fucking weird, 'popping in' uninvited. Hell, no way mister!! My skin is crawling just thinking about that.

I so know what you mean by cat rubbed the wrong way. God what a creep he is.

And breathe........

Off to the ducks before it rains.

Back tonight, hopefully on a shiney new netbook!!!!

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