This is a bit embarrassing But I have got a few (4 or 5) itchy bumps on my fanjo, and the surrounding area is slightly inflamed and sore. I have had a look with a mirror and they look like insect bites like you might get from a flea or bedbug or similar. I am pretty sure I don't have crabs because it's only itchy in that one spot, and I can't see anything there. I do have a cat but haven't had any other flea type bites and neither has DS.
It seems to be going down/away now after a few days, but I just suddenly thought do you think I need to get it checked out? I would be mortified if it was any kind of STD. I had the standard checks in pregnancy 2 years ago, since then I have only slept with DS' Dad (about 4 times) and then since I left him, one other person. I made sure condoms were used all of these times. I don't think that XP ever cheated on me, but I suppose he could have done, we weren't having sex a lot towards the end of the relationship.