I had a graze last week which mw said didn't require stitching. I didn't really ask details, just assumed it was a bit of a scuff, although it stung a lot. Had a feel down there last night as I realised my perineum was intact, and was rather horrified to find that it feels like a deep split from vagina upwards to clitoris.
I didn't even know you could tear upwards! Does anybody have experience of a tear there? Will it heal up? I'm scared to look.