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What have you done to your thumb jet?

(slinking back in)

Alls wellafter my blip apart from my weight

am a bit lost DEM - is this random sex with ex?

Now that's a thought random wanton sex....

Errrrr, tricky one...is the random wanton sex being wanted with him or elsewhere? I am unclear so far...

here have a comfy cushion five.
tell all. we see to be spilling a bit tmi at mo

Hi Fanny!

I am always unclear..

DEM, I can't remember if you do hugs or manly punches or handshaking or what but I feel a tremendous amount of empathy for you right now and hope things turn a corner for you soon.

I feel like I am swimming up through deep treacle, and once in a while I get a glimpse of the surface, where I know I will breathe fresh air again, but I seem to keep swimming and swimming and it feels like the treacle keeps getting deeper. I really really want to turn my life around for me and the DC's, and know somehow I will, but I am knackered by it all and feel like I could lie on a beach for a year, just catching my breath and finding myself again, but life ain't like that.

Guess I am lucky that I just keep believing things will turn around somehow...if I ever lose that I am proverbally screwed. The day I am debt free, with a half decent job, the children are as settled as children get, and I can just be the me that I want to be and believe I really am, will be a bloody good day IMO.

Yay Fanny
And yes, DEM< do pls enlighten us as to random wanton sex

I think to solve the not emotionally moved on issue it had better not be with ex althought that thought is a bit too appealing

Anyway. back to point.
ex and i good friends can talk about virtually everything. he still drives me mad and vice versa. No going back. Happy with the friendship only thing (at least thought) feeling rather lusty at mo. so the question is as i am supposed to have moved on how do i kick that ideal back into reality?

Lost the plot. DH ended up going our with BIl and his freinds, I ended up with bottle of wine and beans on toast. Bil's frined flooded my nothers holiday home this morning.

Talked to person who I pissed off, ended up being crossed posts via her DH. we have bever relied on mobiles/here as they have only just happened. Seems like my lack of communication uoset her but that is now sorted.

you are all lovely.

And yes I am very shy too

but am 40 next year

party in June

big field to camp in

God, I could SO do with some random wanton sex....

is the answer random wanton sex?

clearer now?

Right DEM, I will have to catch up on this later or in the morning- just going to watch a movie with DP and drown out the intermittant screams of dd2 (been up there twice since she went to bed and my patience is wearing thin )- excuse any x-posts, and I shall catch up anon (and no doubt post something inane and ill-considered...)

Love to all

It gets all consuming does it not DEM?

My DH asked for wnaton sex earlier

not soecifically for tonight biu==]]]t more often

I am going to bed too.

Night all x

You want random wanton sex with your ex? Dem, is that right?

Fanny, I'm there!

I would go for it Fanny, imagine you are approaching a 'drout' and stockpile pending future availability...

Five - camping at your gaff for a party? Sounds good!

(apart from the camping. Don't you do 5 star b&b?!)

I am the one asking for random wanton sex in our relationship.
Oh to be wanted.

mits that feeling of treacle swimming was one i was starting to feel like i was escaping from. Thankfully ds is like everyone told me yesterday a kid with emotions he doesnt know how to express so does in the manner he can. He is resigned to coming back, has been promised he can hve main residency with ex over summer but we will sort it out closer and hopefully it will settle a bit with afterschool club (grannie doesnt cut it for entertainment and she'll be glad of an afternoon free) and more regular trips to ex's. so just need to sort the sleep bit out and it'll be fine. Lack of sleep is my biggest cause of paranoia and this does tend to haunt me badly sometimes. Hope you get to the point of beginning to feel like you.