My dsis has to have major, major back surgery - her spine is deeply fucked up but she is only 36. This surgery has to be good because it has to last her a long time. She is also in the middle of a nasty breakup with an ex who turns more vindictive by the day - this is relevant as it is competition for her time, energy and money, all of which are in poor supply atm.
Anyway she has two choices of surgeon.
Doc A has known her for a couple of years, is warm, friendly, funny, understands her pain, is one of the top in the business, he takes good care of her and she trusts him. He's met the twat ex and is himself going through a nasty divorce so sympathetic on that score.
However, Doc A sent her to Doc B, who is regarded as the "rock star" of this type of surgery. Dsis felt this guy was great, but also cocky, breezy and matter-of-fact, and doesn't know her (or her pain thresholds/history etc) at all. Plus, one of the ex's closest cronies is one of this Doc's long-term patients.
So, wwyd: Doc A or Doc B?