Thanks for that. He has long gone to bed with a dose of Medised so hopefully he'll have a good night.
Aimsmum, I hope your dd gets some respite from it all soon. I suffered ear pain as a child and still remember crying myself to sleep as it is so miserable . Think friend's ds has suffered similarly to your dd and has a lot of scar tissue in his inner ear as a result but, when he hasn't had infections, his hearing is actually still ok. He had his 3rd (?) set of grommits fitted in December, still in, and he hasn't had an infection since, after 5 years of the problems you describe. Hopefully there is yet a solution out there for your dd.