Who took ages to recover from childbirth? Help and advice wanted from survivors!

[godivas]

Hello everyone, I actually read old posts about this but wanted to hear more details since I am really despairing now.

I gave birth to ds1 10 months ago. Total trauma in the delivery room. No episiotomy. Ventouse and 3rd degree tears.

I have so much going on down there still that I started wondering if I will ever recover from this.

Sometimes hurting on the outside, sometimes aching on the inside, sometimes a feeling as if my soft tissues are burned off at the enterance. Sometimes I feel as if I was hit by a bus on the perineum. Sometimes I am totally fine.

Anyone experienced such complications and pain like this for months and months after the delivery?

I thought id reply just to say i sympathise with you. I had a normal childbirth and yet i felt second time around that things took alot longer to heal and feel normal again and idint even have the trauma you had. I would see your GP again to chack things are healing fine.