I have what I suppose is moderate IBS, although I really really hope it doesn't get any worse. Worst symptoms are urgency, plus some cramps. I've had the elimination checks (colonoscopy) and I'm also pretty sure it's not linked to any particular food, although it does seem to be linked to eating in general.
I also have quite bad - possibly also "moderate" - haemorrhoids which are huge (or so they seem) and bloody painful, and which have to be pushed back in (sorry) after every bowel movement. I've had not one but two haemorrhoidectomies, the recovery from which was fucking agony, but am more or less back where I started. They also sometimes spontaneously prolapse when I'm walking around. NB I haven't given birth.
The two issues seem to exacerbate each other - the IBS understandably aggravates the haemorrhoids, but also the haemorrhoids sometimes seem to trigger an IBS attack.
It's bearable, but it's very uncomfortable, stressful, and has come close to being extremely embarrassing on more than one occasion.
Does anyone have any advice of what worked for them? Thanks.