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GP suspects appendicitis and offered hospital or pain relief only - WWYD?

113 replies

Tattooedteacher0621 · 06/08/2026 17:47

I’ve just been to the GP re pain I’ve had.
started yesterday in lower left quadrant - I assumed was ovary linked as I often get ovulation pain. I’d say that pain was around a 6. I took painkillers and was fine.

Today pain is between a 5 (at good points) and 9. Went to doc’s - pain in now lower right quadrant. When it’s around 8-9 I have to walk slowly, all hunched over, but it does come and go in terms of intensity. The doctor felt around and thinks it’s my appendix. I’ve got a pretty high pain threshold but today has challenged me - a lot!

He's given me the choice of stronger painkiller and see how to goes; or go to hospital.

I know that you’re not doctors but what would you do? Because I don’t want to feel like I’m wasting anyone’s time and I also hate hospitals.

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ForDreamyMintHare · 06/08/2026 21:01

SuePer · 06/08/2026 18:19

Didn't he at least check your bloods see if crp and wcc are up?

You do know that as a GP it would take me several days to get those blood results back? Not hugely useful for something acute like this.

Greybeardy · 06/08/2026 21:32

UltimateSloth · 06/08/2026 20:35

That's interesting because my teenage son had an open surgery for appendicitis a couple of years ago. Full laparotomy. And then kicked out of the hospital after 2 nights. Only to go back in with an infection. I've always suspected the whole thing was botched. This was after us being sent home from A&E 2 days running because they thought it wasn't appendicitis.

first rule of medicine is never say ‘never’ (which is why I didn’t say ‘never’ in my comment!). My point was more that whether they don’t just decide to do it laparoscopically/open based on whether it’s burst or not (which you can’t always tell until you’re on the inside). The vast majority of appendices are done laparoscopically, even the really grotty ones, but just occasionally it’s the right thing to do a laparotomy.

UltimateSloth · 06/08/2026 21:40

Greybeardy · 06/08/2026 21:32

first rule of medicine is never say ‘never’ (which is why I didn’t say ‘never’ in my comment!). My point was more that whether they don’t just decide to do it laparoscopically/open based on whether it’s burst or not (which you can’t always tell until you’re on the inside). The vast majority of appendices are done laparoscopically, even the really grotty ones, but just occasionally it’s the right thing to do a laparotomy.

They told us they were going to do a laparotomy before the surgery. Apparently the appendix had burst but on the scan it had encapsulated. But they definitely ruled out keyhole before the surgery even happened.

Aluna · 06/08/2026 21:51

Airconfan · 06/08/2026 20:48

Grumbling appendix is a thing. My DH had it for months leading up to his full appendicitis which did burst.

Yes when I had appendicitis I realised I had had pain in that area on and off for a couple of years before it became acute.

SylvanMoon · 06/08/2026 21:52

Go to hospital. My cousin had pain that her GP suspected was appendicitis, and sent her home with pain killers. She ended up in A&E with peritonitis due to an undiagnosed birth defect connecting her intestine, which got looped around the connecting tissue and ruptured.

WiseMoose · 06/08/2026 21:57

Good luck OP

hope you soon find out what is going on

Cherryio · 06/08/2026 22:10

Go to the hospital! It could be a rumbling appendix in which case you’ll need antibiotics. My DH had this and was in agony but it cleared up fast.

What you don’t want is it b
rupturing. My mum has a scar across her abdomen almost the size of a c section scar from hers bursting. She almost died from the infection.

Happyjoe · 06/08/2026 22:35

UltimateSloth · 06/08/2026 20:35

That's interesting because my teenage son had an open surgery for appendicitis a couple of years ago. Full laparotomy. And then kicked out of the hospital after 2 nights. Only to go back in with an infection. I've always suspected the whole thing was botched. This was after us being sent home from A&E 2 days running because they thought it wasn't appendicitis.

Certainly shouldn't have sent him home after 2 nights! Evil hospital. Average stay time is 10 days, I got out after my laparotomy after 7 and that was good going. Your poor son.

Nearly50omg · 06/08/2026 22:37

I’ve had appendicitis 3 times now and had antibiotics to treat it 3 times. Still get pains and grumbling from the appendix so I would recommend getting the bloody thing out!!

lollygiggler · 06/08/2026 22:44

My friends mum was in hospital for days. The doctors said it couldn’t be appendicitis as she was “too old” to have it. It was appendicitis but they don’t realise until it had already ruptured and she got sepsis. She sadly died. Please push until you get a diagnosis you are happy with.

BerryTwister · 06/08/2026 22:47

SuePer · 06/08/2026 18:19

Didn't he at least check your bloods see if crp and wcc are up?

@SuePer OP saw a GP. It takes around a week to get GP bloods done. I’m not sure where you work (I assume you’re a GP or a nurse, rather than someone claiming to know what they’re talking about while actually knowing nothing), but where I work the next blood test appointment currently is in a week. I know this because I was with a patient trying to book a slot today.

Angelou79 · 06/08/2026 22:55

OP I e fit hyper mobility so very high pain threshold, appendicitis started a month before, I assumed heat stroke.
Then when it for want of better word, erupted, at first thought I was in labour, after checking assumed was tummy bug, this all started at 8pm. Spent night in bathroom puking & occasionally the other. By 9am ambulance was called.
By 12 I was in surgery having it removed apparently I was 5 minutes from it going & causing major sepsis.
Trust your body & the medics.Please go to hospital.

BerryTwister · 06/08/2026 22:55

The “stay at home and see what happens” option is perfectly reasonable in adults with ?appendicitis. Sometimes the pain subsides. And no one wants to spend 9 hours in A&E, only tomorrow be sent home and told to come back if it gets worse. Pain is very subjective, which is why the GP gave OP the choice.

Morelovelyandtemperate · 06/08/2026 23:00

Tattooedteacher0621 · 06/08/2026 17:47

I’ve just been to the GP re pain I’ve had.
started yesterday in lower left quadrant - I assumed was ovary linked as I often get ovulation pain. I’d say that pain was around a 6. I took painkillers and was fine.

Today pain is between a 5 (at good points) and 9. Went to doc’s - pain in now lower right quadrant. When it’s around 8-9 I have to walk slowly, all hunched over, but it does come and go in terms of intensity. The doctor felt around and thinks it’s my appendix. I’ve got a pretty high pain threshold but today has challenged me - a lot!

He's given me the choice of stronger painkiller and see how to goes; or go to hospital.

I know that you’re not doctors but what would you do? Because I don’t want to feel like I’m wasting anyone’s time and I also hate hospitals.

I had a grumbling appendix for months, had no idea what it was.
Honestly, just get it taken out. I went on "ignoring" it for about 6 months then nearly died 😬

Morelovelyandtemperate · 06/08/2026 23:05

Deuce26 · 06/08/2026 19:51

Appendix is normally on the right hand side! (Google tells me there are exceptions hence the normally)

I didn't have pain on the lower right until it was almost too late - the pain had been right up high under my diaphragm for months. Which is why appendicitis didn't even cross my mind.

secretmum41 · 06/08/2026 23:39

I’ve just had this exact thing recently. Your GP doesn’t sound good at all tbh. My GP said any pain like this is recommended to be seen in a+e within 24 hours. Mine was suspected appendicitis, I didn’t think it was. Turns out it was diverticulitis, first episode I’ve ever had! I got antibiotics and was much better a week later. Good luck at a+e, keep us posted.

Dersie · 06/08/2026 23:47

Tattooedteacher0621 · 06/08/2026 17:47

I’ve just been to the GP re pain I’ve had.
started yesterday in lower left quadrant - I assumed was ovary linked as I often get ovulation pain. I’d say that pain was around a 6. I took painkillers and was fine.

Today pain is between a 5 (at good points) and 9. Went to doc’s - pain in now lower right quadrant. When it’s around 8-9 I have to walk slowly, all hunched over, but it does come and go in terms of intensity. The doctor felt around and thinks it’s my appendix. I’ve got a pretty high pain threshold but today has challenged me - a lot!

He's given me the choice of stronger painkiller and see how to goes; or go to hospital.

I know that you’re not doctors but what would you do? Because I don’t want to feel like I’m wasting anyone’s time and I also hate hospitals.

Go straight to the hospital, bypass the doc if he/or she is being so dismissive.
I hsd a burst appendix at 22 went to the doc 4 times in 2 weeks who continually told me I had IBS until I finally collapsed, got blue lighted into hospital then was on the operating table for 11 hours after the fluids from all internal organs began draining and failing, I have hideous scars all over my stomach and it disintegrated my fallopian tubes leaving me infertile (was able to have ivf later on in life though thankfully) it was a long recovery too.
Dont delay OP.

LivelyGreyShark · 06/08/2026 23:51

Wow you know the NHS is on its knees when you're offered a paracetamol for appendicitis.

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 07/08/2026 00:10

I had a burst appendix. My pain subsided as it burst. The pain moved from one side to the other before hand too.

Please don't delay. My GP told me to wait and see too and it was a mistake.

I did avoid surgery thorough by luck.

Funkylights · 07/08/2026 00:15

Hospital

MrsMoastyToasty · 07/08/2026 01:48

Hospital. Now.
I had right sided pain which the doctor through 111 thought might appendicitis ot gallstones.

It took an ultrasound and CT scan to find out what it was. It was something called an omentum infarction (I had to Google it!) and surgery was an option but they managed to treat it with intravenous antibiotics. I was in hospital for 5 days and off work for another week.

canuckup · 07/08/2026 02:20

Doctor sounds like a quack

Hope you get seen soon op

Missey85 · 07/08/2026 02:23

Go to hospital much better than it rupturing and you bleed to death

FiveShelties · 07/08/2026 02:50

NearlyNewNonny · 06/08/2026 17:56

The last thing you want is a burst appendix. Peritonitis isn't pleasant, I ended up on life support in ICU with it. Go to hospital.

Yes, me too. I was only 5 and can remember the surgeon telling me I had spoilt his New Year's Eve as he had to operate on me!

knottywig · 07/08/2026 08:43

Pistachiocake · 06/08/2026 20:09

Maybe things have changed, but when I went they said they can't check with appendicitis, and would just take it out. I asked for a scan but they said no and it would be an immediate op (UK NHS).
After, a friend of my mum's said she got a scan when she had it at the same time, but she's a doctor, so whether she had more clout, or whether she was private I don't know.
OP, I'd go to hospital.

I was trying to say it could be something else in another way that wouldn’t worry the op, so the rule out other things! My encouragement was to go to the hospital because gps although knowledgeable can try to pin things on the easiest diagnosis, hence the reason Jess’s Rule (3 visits) came to pass.