Not going down well at the mo, tho have persuaded him to let me wipe eye with warm face cloth etc as Dr ordered. Achieved this by showing him his face in the mirror so he could see gunk and what I was trying to do. Offered him the choice of him doing it or me, in a clam gentle way etc blah. Eye drops and cream that have to go inside eyelide are quite another thing however - Please Help!
Any ideas/suggestions gratefully received.