I am on a similar journey, OP. My sympathies as it is undeniably concerning. Here’s what I can tell you.
First, the large majority referred for colonoscopy are cleared! You could easily be describing one of many bugs, or IBS. Also, lots of bowel diseases not nearly as serious as cancer can cause bleeding. The colonoscopy can be used for diagnosis and treatment.
Second, I’ve recently had a colonoscopy for persistent distress which sounds similar to yours. My regular FIT test of 18 months ago and one from January were both negative, but with ongoing symptoms I was eventually offered the procedure.
The event itself was nothing. I had mild sedation with a tiny bit of Fentanyl (a typical combination), and felt not a twinge. I was a bit groggy for the rest of the day and perhaps a little tired the next, then fine. I hear mixed things about what it’s like to rely on gas & air so I am enthusiastic about the sedative option. I only dozed off for a few minutes.
The prep is no fun, but it is quite bearable and I say that as a complete wimp.
I had a couple of small polyps removed. One remaining polyp looks dodgy and wouldn’t shift so I have been referred to a tertiary centre that does newer, noninvasive surgery as well as traditional surgery. The consultant I saw thinks I will be a good candidate for the former.
For the patient this is essentially the same experience as a colonoscopy. As this technique is now used with very, very low recurrence rates on many dodgy polyps that would have required invasive surgery previously (because it is good to get a polyp with a high suspicion for cancer out in one piece), I find this utterly amazing.
Nevertheless I have done a bit of reading around bowel cancer. I was very glad to read that even when traditional surgery is needed, the large majority now lose only half the bowel and what’s left functions almost normally. And even more glad to read that most often this is a slow growing cancer, so that if caught early the chances for cure are excellent. It sounds like things have moved quickly for you so that’s great.
I see the consultant who made this referral soon, and I agree that the waiting is very, very hard.