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Can anyone with peri relate to this

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Amberandgold · 28/11/2025 10:40

I've been told my symtoms are down to peri, this is after having a host of blood tests which are all normal, as well as an ECG, echo, Xray holter monitor etc.

I'm 43 and have been suffering for a year, mainly with palpitations (after eating carb rich foods), sometimes lightheaded, fast pulse when going from sitting to standing/walking, feeling of not getting a deep enough breath in, BP which fluctuates on low side (one day will be my norm. of 115/70, next day it will be 105/63).

My periods have shortened (now only 2 days but still very heavy).

As I said, bloods normal, not anemic (Hb 12, Ferritin 65, b12 350).

Anyone had the same symtoms? I'm feeling down as this has been going on for 1 year

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AlexStocks · 28/11/2025 13:59

I'm in meno now, but yes to all this! I still have palps if I eat too much. The only thing that helps for me is exercise. If I manage a good, vigorous session, all is well.

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 28/11/2025 14:09

Normal. Though I've had the palpitations since I gave birth 15yrs ago. They are anxiety basically.

Which HRT are you on?

givemeanother · 28/11/2025 14:11

Did they test your folate along with b12? I’d otherwise say pretty normal for peri but the feeling of not getting a deep enough breath in I had with low folate (borderline low so NHS didn’t treat, but otc supplements solved it for me).

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 28/11/2025 14:13

The breathing thing is anxiety. It's so, so common. Didn't the GP tell you that?

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 28/11/2025 14:14

Learn to breathe into your diaphragm, it really helps.

Amberandgold · 28/11/2025 17:20

@givemeanother my folate was 5 which is not technically low according to the NHS ranges but I've been taking methylfolate supplements for 2 months, can't say I've noticed a difference.
@Justputsomeyoghurtonit I'm not on HRT yet.

I also thought BP was meant to rise during peri, not fall..

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givemeanother · 28/11/2025 17:31

did you take a b12 supplement with the folate? The two work
together and your b12 level wasn’t that high either. Might be worth trying both - I take 2mg of folic acid and a sublingual (dissolve under tongue b12). Might be worth a try.

otherwise agree with an earlier poster that breathwork could also be worth a try. Eg spend 10mins a couple of times a day breathing in for 6, hold for 6, out for 6. I found in 2020 I’d stopped breathing in deeply (prob due to covid anxiety) and the breathing out for a long stretch seemed to help.

Amberandgold · 28/11/2025 23:13

@AlexStocks did you also get the air hunger/breathlessness?

@givemeanother I started supplementing sublingual b12 4 weeks ago but still no improvement.

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