Mr Bishop rused into hospital

[Blandmum]

Today has to be one of the worst days ever. I came home from work, and the front door was open and the TV on, but I couldn't find DH. I phoned round a few mates who sometimes take him out for the day, and thankfully they came round. I found dh collapsed in the bathroom.

I thought he was dead.

Thankfully he wasn't, but it too a 999 call and the paramedics to find out that he was in a diabetic coma.

It was all so awful, it has been the thing that I've worried about most of all in his illness, coming home and finding him dead and I really thought that it had happened.

Amazingly the docs still think that he is well enough to chemo tomorrow and will arrange for us to have oxygen at home, and his o2 sats are poor, probably due to the tumous mass.

christ but this is hard. Thank god I had people with me when it happened, and MIL is visiting. If I had stayed in work for a meeting that I was supposed to go to, I think that he really could have died.

Hope you both have a better night tonight. He'll be well looked after.

Only just seen this don't post on yr threads much but huge fan of you MB; think you are total mensch and brilliant woman and am thinking of you and feeling for you and hope you get a good night's sleep .

oh lord. What a terrible shock.

Hope you get some rest MB. You need it. x

I've only just seen this too, MB, and echo grace - I think you're fab, too.

I hope that you're being easy on yourself: you've had a huge shock and are under enormous stress day to day (and that's just the teaching

Sleep well Mr and Mrs MB.

Lots of love,

XXX

I have only just seen this MB.

If I were you I would take a glass of wine into the bath, and light some candles. You need to try and wind down and release some of the tension and stress you are holding onto.

I hope MrMB has a comfortable night.

That must have been so scary. I'm not surprised you had a bad night. hope that tonight you get a better rest and that Mr MB is able to come home tomorrow. x

oh goodness - how scary for you. I hope DH has a comfortable night, and that you can relax..don't know if you're a wine drinker but I do think a LARGE glass might well be just what you need to start to relax...best wishes to all

have had wine, and I'm about to run the bath. The ward sister linked me up with the hospital macmillan nurse and that did help a bit.

Oh MrMB and MB, that must have been so cary. hopefully he will be well enough to come home tomorrow after a good rest at the hospital.

xxx

hope you both manage to rest up, mb. can't imagine how traumatised you must feel, you poor woman.

poor you, and poor him- hope you read this tomorrow after a good sleep!

Oh MB, poor you and dh, I've only just seen this. I hope you manage to get some sleep tonight.

MB - hope you are tucked up in bed now feeling relaxed enough to sleep. I am sure that your dd is having a lovely time so try not to worry about her too much on top of everything else. Hope DH and the oxygen are home with you tomorrow.

MB - I know you don't normally do them but you can have a hug. No arguments.

Hope Mr MB is feeling little better tomorrow and you can get him home.

Hope you get a better nights sleep. Pleased you were able to talk to the Macmillan nurse.

It all sounds horrendous. Sleep. It is what you need.

xx

(((((((((((MB))))))))))))

Hope you got a restful night MB; and that Mr M is okay to ome home soon.

Just found this thread... what a shock for both of you! Thank God you came home!

Hope MrB had a restful night, and you too

Morning from sunny Lincolnshire. Hope he's home soon x

I was so exhausted that I slept from 10 to 5.30, which hasn't happened in more time than I can remember, so I feel a little stronger this morning.

After the school run I'll go to the hospital and see what the next steps are. I hope that dh had a better night