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Haemorrhoidectomy

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kerry19834 · 02/05/2025 17:16

I'm debating if I should get a haemorrhoidectomy. For the last ten or so years I've had internal and external hemmeroids. The external one is very big, now basically a skin tag which pulls down on the internal anal passage.

They cause no discomfort, but until four months ago they bleed after most times I went to the loo. With the toilet water being bright red. This bleeding happened for almost three years.

I was referred on the NHS due to the bleeding and I have been put on the waiting list for a Haemorrhoidectomy.

The only thing is in the last four months I have got a poo stool and apart from a tummy bug week or two bleeding only twice.

I'm now thinking about not having a Haemorrhoidectomy, as the recovery sounds awful and much longer than two weeks my consultant said. I always thought two weeks would be optimistic given the external one is huge almost tail like.

Given the bleeding has stopped after years and I'm in no pain. Should I not have the op as it sounds horrible.

My worry is it could get worse again or worse than it's every been. Now I'm in the system I'm worried about turning it down.

Just interested in thoughts. Almost should I have it now as when I'm older they could get a lot worse and bleed all the time again or through my clothes regularly like they did on occasion last year.

OP posts:
SqueamishHamish · 02/05/2025 21:00

I haven't had a hemorroidectomy but I am on a waiting list for anal skin tags. The way I see it is it's an investment in your future self. Believe me I have thought of just putting up with it but then I think how awful this would be when I am old and not as able. Just get it sorted.

StartingOverInMy40s · 02/05/2025 22:14

The recovery pain is intense. My doctor made it clear to me beforehand just how extreme the pain was and I’ve genuinely never felt pain like it. I’d never have another one again.

Jodiewa · 30/04/2026 08:18

SqueamishHamish · 02/05/2025 21:00

I haven't had a hemorroidectomy but I am on a waiting list for anal skin tags. The way I see it is it's an investment in your future self. Believe me I have thought of just putting up with it but then I think how awful this would be when I am old and not as able. Just get it sorted.

who did the anal tag procedure for you and how did it go? Thanks

SqueamishHamish · 30/04/2026 16:04

This was an NHS procedure under GA. About one year wait time. Took eight weeks to feel back to normal. I had no pain after my op, just general discomfort. I would say that it is definitely not a cosmetic procedure and it is not left perfect, but I have no pain and it is definitely worth it.

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