OJ - meds were a big issue for my dad too, you mustn't take it personally, Steve is hitting out at his situation and the closest person to him, because that is all he can hit out, poor man, poor you - but he is lucky to have you, and you him. Does that make any sense, cos im proper tired .
Would it be possible, or too painful, or too unaware to discuss the funeral with Steve? Just so you know what he might like to happen. My uncle wanted half of his ashes to be buried in Jamaca as that was their favourite holiday spot, the other half were let off in a firework on the beach outside his beachhut It was what he wanted so thats what his family did. The only reason i ask this is that if there are special things you both might like if you have talked about it before hand then you can be more resolute in any dealings with his family of bastards Sorry, if that is not appropriate at this stage.
I went to a christening on Sunday OJ, we had to do that Silent prayer thing, i know you dont do God, im not sure i really do, but i thought about you and your family during that quiet time.