Bless him , poor old dh needs to go back to the hospice to get his pain sorted out

[Blandmum]

I know that it is for the best, and they did a fantastic job in the run up to Christmas. I'm sure that they will do well by him again.

But this is the killer.

I have a day in a Day Spa booked for Wednesday, so he delayed going for 2 days so that I can still go.

I've never loved him as much and never wanted to slap him silly so much.

As it happens I think we can still arrange thing so that he can go early.

But what did I ever do to deserve such a wonderful man? And how shitty is life that such a good man should have such a disease and be in such pain?

[sobs]

bless him indeed. he does sound like an extremely considerate husband.

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My dad is in a hospice at the moment and I can not speak highly enough of what they have done for him.He is now mobile again and his pain is under control - more than we ever hoped for.

Your DH does not want anyone else's life to be disrupted. They will do their stuff.
He wants you to be happy.
He is doing what he can for you to repay you for what you do for him.
Say thank you and give him a huge hug.

He always has been bloodyminded.

Its is more than half of the reason that he is still with us, tbh

The important thing is that he knows you appreciate him. And he knew this before he was ill, didn't he? You have filled that man's life with love and appreciation.

When I was diagnosed with cancer and I didn't know what was going to happen to me I was truly grateful that I had had 10 wonderful years with my DH, that I had known true love and appreciation in my life, because there are many people who never do.

I am sure your DH would do anything for you, because you have given him this wonderful gift.

Oh MB... and Mr MB...

So sorry to hear he's uncomfortable and hope they sort out the pain relief.

welling up here too...[watery smile]

me too. [watery smile emoticon needed]

I've read but don't think I've posted on your threads before Martian but may I just say this:

You deserve this wonderful man because you have given him so much, and he surely appreciates you as much as you do him?

I imagine he feels there is not much he can give you at the moment and he wants to give you something.

Hoping they get DHs pain sorted very quickly. And - A Spa Day - how lovely .

I just sorted myself out after reading your OP MB and now Anorak's has started me off again

Your DH is without a doubt an incredibly special, considerate person MB- but then so are you x

You are all making me blub. What a wonderful gesture your dh has made.

Your op made me go all shivery....

Hope dh gets the pain sorted and that you manage to go on spa day and have a relax.

What a lovely man your DH is, MB. I hope he gets the pain sorted.

Sorry to hear that your DH is struggling so with the pain MB. I hope that he gets sorted soon in the hospice.

What a wonderful man you have in your life!

Love and hugs to both you and your love DH MB. Hope they get his pain sorted soon.

Anorak how are you? Is there a thread I can peruse for an update?

i am also welling up, what a wonderful man married to such a wonderful woman. Life is indeed unfair..
hope the hospice can really help.

I think you deserve each other, MB. So much love between you ...

Feel very that he needs his pain sorting again. You are both so brave (I know there's no choice, but still ...)

Have a lovely day at the spa.

Love to you all,

xxx

Much better thanks chocolate - on milder chemo drugs now.

oh MB, what a fab husband you have.

Hope he gets his pain sorted out quickly.

Hope the hospice does the business for him MB.

You two deserve each other - well picked, the pair of you (watery too).

I so hope the hospice helps as much as last time, xxx

What an amazing amazing man. I truly hope they sort his pain relief out uber fast. You sound pretty amazing too I might add!