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How to go about a private GP appointment.

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Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 01/06/2024 15:53

Would be grateful for any advice as I think my brain has glitched.

How do I go about booking a private GP face to face appointment ? It is for suspected stomach cancer. Is bupa better than Nuffield, do I need to find one that specialises in Gastric or pain relief? Or are they generalists? Google is giving me the impression that I need to book a face to face at a private hospital as opposed to a clinic based GP.

Dh has seen his Nhs GP and has been referred on the two week pathway, but is in pain and needs to know what he is facing. Nhs GP has refused pain relief other than paracetamol and has refused a sick note for his work. Apparently they are two separate issues and need two more appointments - the next available appointment is a month away. He only managed to get an emergency appointment after 2 weeks of daily phoning. Dh was prescribed antacids. He had been referred for blood tests, (2 weeks for results) stool tests (2 weeks for results) and endoscopy. Our local A and E has some of the worst wait times (18+ hours) and understandably Dh would rather be in pain at home rather than on the floor of an and e. The hospital wait for scans which are around 26 weeks.

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Mischance · 20/06/2024 08:10

Sending a hand hold.

Jaffaisitacakeorbiscuit · 20/06/2024 08:49

I'm glad your lovely DH went peacefully with you by his side at home.
I am so sorry though, that you had to fight for absolutely everything to get what he so deserved

Sunday10 · 20/06/2024 08:54

I’m so sorry to hear this. So glad you were holding his hand, you were there for him throughout this sudden, terrible journey. You have been truly amazing and your love and support must have meant so much for him. Please try and take care of yourself now, give yourself plenty of time. X

misscockerspaniel · 20/06/2024 08:58

Sending you the biggest virtual hug possible x

Crazycat53 · 20/06/2024 09:16

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you virtual hugs x

Rathersurprised · 20/06/2024 10:59

So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you 💐💐💐💐

NanTheWiser · 20/06/2024 11:37

I too, am so sorry for your loss, Alphabet. I have followed your difficult journey, and you have been completely amazing all the way through. He is now at peace, and thanks to you, he was able to have the comfort of you by his side.

I rarely post on these type of threads, but please accept my condolences. 💐

DumbledoresWand · 20/06/2024 11:58

I too have followed you're thread - we too have no family - I am in awe of how you battled to get the best care for your DH, and that he passed peacefully with you holding his hand.
You are in my thoughts xx

lifechangingsausageroll · 20/06/2024 12:14

I am so sorry OP. You were a wonderful advocate for your husband.

If you need real life support I'm sure there will be Mumsnet members living near you, who would be happy to meet for a coffee, should you want to. You're not alone.

elastamum · 20/06/2024 17:22

I'm so sorry for the loss of your DH. Thinking of you X

Catsinaflat · 20/06/2024 18:01

You are an amazing person. I am so very sorry for the loss of your dh x

curlycurlymoo · 20/06/2024 19:52

Really sorry for your loss. I've been following your thread and have been thinking of you the whole time. I hope you're being kind to yourself during this difficult time

LizzieBet14 · 20/06/2024 20:52

Sending love ❤️ xx

cathcath2 · 20/06/2024 23:54

I'm so sorry OP. Look after yourself

nickyschof · 21/06/2024 00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss @Alphabet1spaghetti2. 💐💐💐

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 25/06/2024 17:30

Today is a not so bad, bad day. I have no idea how I am going to be once I have wrapped my head around it all. Feel like I stepped from one nightmare into another. It has helped believe it or not, just posting on here and reading your very kind message to me, a total stranger to you all. You have all helped me just keep going.
I have done bits and pieces, registered his death and have his cremation to yet arrange. His work have paid for me to have private counselling which has been a literal life saver along with the Samaritans. My work have also banded together to provide me telephone support and bless them have visited often to give practical help and just talk. You really don’t know who are your friends until the shit hits the fan.
Just wanted to say thank you one and all.

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Halsall · 25/06/2024 17:46

I’m just a lurker but also thinking of you @Alphabet1spaghetti2. Lots of us are silently sending support, I’m sure.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 25/06/2024 17:57

Thinking of you and sending all my love. ❤❤❤

LizzieBennett73 · 25/06/2024 18:39

I'm so glad you've got real life support as well as online here. Keep talking and take each moment as it comes. One step in front of the other Flowers

Theraffarian · 25/06/2024 20:26

Pleased you’ve got support to get through these early days x

Bathoclock · 25/06/2024 21:06

It’s a relief to hear you are getting some support, must be very difficult for you at the moment.

Mezzaninemel · 26/06/2024 11:51

Sending you lots of love. I have been thinking of you so much x

AnneShirleysNewDress · 26/06/2024 21:39

I'm so sorry @Alphabet1spaghetti2 Flowers

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 08/07/2024 07:27

Married a month today. Steve is being cremated today. Received first death in service benefit today.

no, I am not coping.

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