Embarrassing question. Ever since I can remember I have had a weak bladder - bed setting till my teens, urge incontinence etc. Have never done anything about it, is just something I've lived with. As I've got older I have realized there's a kink with my menstrual cycle and at certain times of the month I seem to have almost no bladder control, especially if ice been drinking a lot of wine or coffee. Have recently been reading up about pcos, which I also have,, and am wondering if there's a link. Can anyone relate and does anyone have tips to help manage the situation?