I first had my ears pierced at 14 many, maaannny years ago. They were pierced for so long that I could leave the earrings out or in as I pleased with no ill effects.
A couple of years ago they started getting hot and swollen, one side in particular, so after trying going without and sterilising the earrings I gave up and left them alone. One side would be fine while I could only get the other earring in halfway.
Just recently I tried and succeeded for the halfway ear lobe to burn and swell. The fine lobe started to get a little warm. I took the earrings out and my lobes are flat and fine after 48 hrs.
What do I need to do to make them earring friendly again as I miss earrings?