I have had ongoing issues with my bladder and bowel for the past 18 months and am now seeing the physio and have booked a private consultant.
Sometimes I really struggle to urinate its like my muscles are in spasm and them at other times they don't work and thus I have to wear pads.
This is nowhere near as bad as my issue with passing faeces. I simply cannot tell when I need to ho anymore and the first thing I can feel is when it starts to exit my body. It means I intend don't make it and its damn embarrassing even if no one else can tell (I really hope they cant).
One nurse has said I have no working muscles in my back passage and very week ones in my vagina.
I have had one child via c section who was a footling breech.
Has anyone had this and its improved? What could it be caused by?
I dread there being a line at the toilets. I still exercise/run/walk etc as it doesn't affect the urine at all and I just pray with the pooh.
It's miserable having to rush for the toilet or not being able to go for a wee when I haven't gone for hours. I hate wearing pads and carrying underwear with me and my child doesn't always understand we have to rush to the toilet when we are out.