Absolutely no sex drive whatsovers (DH going crazy LOL!)

[Haribosmum]

ATM I have absolutely no sex drive. No even the slightest of urges and could gladly to forever without anymore sex. My DH is going crazy and tries so hard to get me 'in the mood' but I'd rather talk about the kids/our day etc. Has anyone go any suggestions as to why this is happening? I have 2 children (2 boys, 3 and 9 months), I had PND after DS2 but am off AD's now. I just wish I wanted to 'do it'

9 months? Seriously, don't worry - just relax and don't think about it. Just having had PND aswell, sex will be waaay down the list + depression zaps sex drive. Just don't fret over it x

i went like that for a while few months after ds was born dont know why was happier to do anything but!!passed after a while think its hard when the only few minutes piece i got in the day to put my feet up dh would try hop on me like randy rabbit alls well in the burrow now

xAmyx made me laugh....sounds sooo familiar!

9 months is nothing! It's been 10 years for me and I couldn't care if I never do it again!

Twice a year for us , and I too could not care a less if I never have it ever again.
However when I do "do" it, I quite enjoy it, I guess sometimes its just the thought of it which puts me off.

However I think it is a symptom of something else, and I worry that we will end up splitting up over it.
My advise would be to get some help from relate. Did not work for us, but we where not motivated to do any of the exercises.

It's def not a sign of something wrong with our Marriage! Nothing wrong there. Lot each other to absolute bits!

Ooop that was suppost to be 'love'!