I have a 5 year old and 2 year old. I lost a lot of weight after my second child so became a healthy weight as I was about 3 stone overweight. I've accepted the mum tum but when I lost all the weight I constantly had a sticking out tummy. I looked skinny except for that. I've just had a checkup and been told I have a 2 cm gap in my tummy muscles. My daughter keeps asking me if im having another baby. I know there's nothing can be done except surgery. I've put about a stone back on and im demoralised because my body shape is awful even when im thinner. Anyone else living with the muscle seperation?