Nappyaddict for you too...
MrsJC, FWIW my dd (4 weeks at the time) did end up in hospital, and HDU to boot, but the bit we had at home was just as stressful - no one else to help watch, no monitors, just you and your babe and that horrid wheezing. So definitely not a fraud.
Once home, we found putting dd in her bouncy chair inside her cot was the best sleep position for her - almost 45 degree angle, safe, etc. She was a bit collapsed into herself in the car seat (just her shape maybe??) and breathed a lot better on bouncy chair - worth a try if you have one, or a carrycot propped up on pillows works quite well too.
In case it helps to know, and no one told you: the fifth day after the first snuffles is supposedly the turning point, when they stop getting worse and start getting better. Before that, its all a bit unpredictable.
If he gets too tired, or throws up all feeds, or you get too worried, don't hesitate to go back to the docs...thats what they're there for. But I hope you continue to escape hospital, and that ds gets well soon and easily - the majority do, I'm told! xxx