Dss has just headed off to the clap clinic!

[Carmenere]

Ah my little boy is all grown up The poor idiot fell in love with a complete slapper who was shagging at least one other bloke during their 6 week long romance(?). He was brainless enough to not use condoms, despite severe warnings from dp and I, she was on the pill.
Anyway fortunately one of his mates has taken him to go and get tested and hopefully he will be ok.
I am torn between sympathy for having such an awful first love experience and anger for him being such a dolt as to not use a condom!

Oh he feels AWFUL The poor fellow. She only blanked him in town today, the idiot is hardwired to try to make things ok with people he loves. His mum has been a total bitch to him and he has spent a couple of years trying to make her love him again[heartbroken emoticon] and he has only just started to deal with her with the suspicion she deserves.
I had a long talk with him this evening about self respect and knowing that he deserves better treatment than this.

He told me that she told him that she spoke to him on the phone whilst she was shagging the other bloke. And the silly cow told him
I really feel bad for him, your first romance shouldn't end this badly

Oh dear. Poor girl must have some emotional baggage already too to be that awful

Indeed, it may save him some future heart ache and make him more emotionally cautious from now on.

Having met him he is a lovely lad, and does not deserve this.

C

You thought she was a lovely girl, I trust your judgment. I wonder has she watched inappropriate videos and thinks this is what "love" is like. ?

House full of visitors, so may not get back tonight.

Huge hug to XXXXX

Huge hugs to you and DD.

P.S I have some blue sparkly flip flops here, that DS is adamant are too girly for him.

at the mid-sex phone call.

but good for your lad for getting checked out, hope that all is well. and sounds like he has a good pal too.

Poor lad carmenere, another rite of passage though I suspect- think a lot of teenagers get this sooner or later sadly

My friends mum ran me to the GP contraceptive clinic when her daughter told her I had a steady (LOL, 6 weeker) boyfriend. My Mum would have been fine but we didnt get on at all, so she kinda took over, thankfully. Funny thing was my friend always said she and her mum weren't close, but they did (and do) discuss anything and everything and are really like best amtes.