Hi I'm having issues when I have to go for a poo. I have to press on my perinium (sorry if my spelling is wrong) in order to go 😳 I'm so embarrassed I've also been having issue with urgency when needing a pee. I'm a wheel chair user meaning sometimes when the urge to pee comes I either just about make it to the toilet or don't. I'm in my late 30s is this an age thing as it's not something I feel comfortable talking ro friends about.