gess - you said, "i just get fed up when they then tell me I'm selfish, when my children have a completely different risk/benefit ratio". i agree and would never dare either think or say someone in your position is being selfish.
i am talking about the no. of bollocks things i have heard from friends and people i have met in their own hippie bubble who go on very very selfishly about how their child is immune BECAUSE they are bf or some other resaon. they are not immune from serious childhood diseases (the killers - i am not talking about the cold or average flu) because of the type of milk they get or the organic food mummy cooks, etc they are at LOW risk because most of us immunise our children.
what i am saying is that if those very same parents had to travel somewhere outside the west, where there is a real and genuine risk that their child may become infected, then they WOULD vaccinate, i am willing to bet my bottom pound/dollar on it. THAT is why i think they are selfish not to vaccinate here if their child is perfectly healthy, thriving not at risk of vaccine damage. they are just trying to be "alternative" which pisses me off and worst of all they are smug about it as though they have achieved some great feat in parenting or logical reasoning that the rest of us lesser mortals are unable to do
the fact is and the medical evidence says vaccines are safe. i accept what the WHO says, if you don't believe in the NHS which most of the time i don't either, then have a look at what the WHO recommends - they recommend vaccination globally not just in poor countries but in ALL countries and they say that these vaccines are safe for the vast majority of healthy children.