Hey,
So I need some advice on herpes and pregnancy. I'm 99% sure I have herpes I have never been fully diagnosed. I had cold symptoms last week then my leg was sensitive to touch and sore. I then had a rash form on the outside Labia ( if that's even a thing ).
I believe I had my first outbreak this time last year, it went away and I thought nothing of it. I was pregnant in September and had another outbreak, I believe this was my third, i had a miscarriage when I was 11 weeks, was awful and I started questioning everything then I thought maybe it was the outbreak? I am not thankfully pregnant again, 5 weeks and I have had An outbreak ... I'm thinking maybe change in hormones causes outbreaks when I'm pregnant.
I am so worried this will cause it.
I also had sex with my partner and then jumped straight off him and performed oral sex, my outbreak is so small I comepltely
Forgot to even check if I had the rash yet.. well I do but it's high up so don't think it has touched him. ( p.s I contracted herpes from him! So he has it!
Anyway.. now I am really panicking that I will have herpes outbreak on my
Mouth, is this classed as a first outbreak because I have read that these are most dangerous when in first 3 months? Or because I already have the hsv 2 virus on my system does it not
Matter where it happens? Also can hsv2 spread to the mouth and become hsv1? I am so scared I am going to have a miscarriage again!
Please no negative comments about the fact I have herpes I am so embarrassed about this.
I am going to try book in with my local GUM clinic tomorrow to get the official diagnosis.
I am so down about this, I have been going to bed at 8pm every night because I just want to sleep and not constantly sit thinking about it.
Thank you for reading xxxxxx