I know how you feel I chose not to have dd vaccinated as it was at a time when the hype was OTT.
However I did relent years on and she had it late.
I am now older, wiser and better informed and decided to have ds vaccinated with MMR and he will have all his other immunisations
This is only a decision you can make, and ultimately its yours no matter how many people you talk to. Try and do some (good) medical research and make your decision accordingly, HTH but probably not.