Thank you all for your kind words, you have both me and DH in tears.
The latest doctor to visit (no. 5) doen't seem to think it is meningitis, just a virus. And reckons she is not that ill, but as i am sure you will appreciate, any illness to you baby is serious to you.
Regardless of that she has really perked up today. She had a good nights sleep (despite DH snoring!) and has eaten and drunk more today. She has started moving about more, and we even had a couple of smiles. Here temp. has not been as high and she has been weeing more.
Although it is still sad to see her lying there, the panic is over.
Thanks again for all your support. I will give you an update tomorrow.