AF,PMT, Told DH I wanted to leave :(

[Munz]

not sure if this is here/relationshps area,

but since having Joey my AF seems to be 1000 times worse - not only from the point of view of pains - last month was so bad I was up half the night in agony and had to take some pills (pre him thou had absolutly no pains at all/probs)

also i've noticed gradually around the time AF is due i'm getting more and more upset witih DH - this month I asked him in seriousness if he wanted me and Joey to leave/not be here once he came back from his course - all cos he didn't do the washing up and I felt like he'd been doing nothing in the house. - not true (sometimes is but he's just come home after a week away with no sleep) last month was a week of pure ranting/crying at him.

not currently on any contraception (DH using condoms on the rare occasion we mange to have sex) just wondering howlong the hormones will take to settle back down again really and to know i'm not alone with this prob

I know, DH is ok he puts up with it but it's not fair on him - tbh I quite rely on going to tots 4 mornings a week.

you will hun, i was like that.

it will get better.... i promise, but you need to see another doctor and chat it over with your HV.

AD's arent the end of the world - i was on them for 4 months between the girls.

I probably need them again, but refuse to go to my twonk of a doctor ever again - need to switch but havent got round to it - best hurry up as due to start my last pack of pills!

lol, sorry to be short earlier, DH came home - and I don't want him to think I just sit on MN all day lol.

erm, yep love tots etc even thou it's the same group of ladies at both, both joey and I enjoy going. deffo gonna talk to my h/v - if only to see what she sgggests - the dr said EP isn't really effective - basically stop moaning get on with it and come back whern u want the pill.

Useless doctor! Is there any way you can go and see another one Munz?

yes I can do (but they seem to all be men down here - and tbh I don't really trust any dr apart form the first one I had althou he's a tough act to follow as we were with the surgery for 20 odd years) anyhow, will see the h/v and take it from there - was definatly not impressed with his attitude/answer.