I place mine in a small avent bottle with sealing lid and 1/4 milton tablet while i shower in the morning, i use the solution for 2 cleans then make up fresh, before soaking i clean with an old electric toothbrush as have 'meaty' loss
I find it can overrun and laughed at the average loss as i lose that by day 2 out of 10 tho days 7-10 are a once a 12 hr clean and then a splodge in the bottom only, only used pads before as bits wrong way to utilise tampon but find with mc less cramping and no external irritation.
I found it easier to remove before #2 as it moving about was distracting and that is poor pf before thinking of children, must be in sympathy.
Love the dishwasher idea tho beware tomato stains!!