Honey, I have come on to this thread to offer support, though I have felt the need to name change because of the attitude other women have about the subject.
I stopped going to my previous GP due to the pressure I faced from them to have a smear. I had went previously for something else and had felt under pressure, so when I next went - again for something else - I went with my mother as I was so anxious about being harassed about having a smear.
I left in tears after being treated with utter content by the GP, who not only sneeringly said she didn't know why I had been referred to her in the first and then she preceded to harass me about a smear. My Mum had previously already made the point that I was anxious and did not want to go to the doctor due to my previous treatment. The doctor went on and on and was very aggressive about making me have one then and there.
I refused to go to the doctors for a number of years after that. There were times during that period I needed a doctor but completely refused to go. The actions of the doctor had completely destroyed my trust in doctors to listen and respect how I felt and to respect the principle that consent is only valid if it is not done so under undue pressure.
It took me some time to find another GP surgery that would accept me. In the end I did and made them put on my notes not to even ask about a smear. They actually said they have had several similar requests and understood that it was causing quite a bit of distress to other women. I asked them to stop sending letters, but they said they had no control over it and were unable to help me remove myself from any mailing list. Every time I receive one of these letters it causes me to end up in floods of tears. I find it appalling that I am unable to remove myself from these mailing lists - lists which are farmed out to non-NHS organisations. I personally consider this an invasion of my privacy.
To make it worse, it is impossible to discuss the subject rationally and to discuss the pros and cons of smear testing in an intellectual way, due to the way in which the whole scheme has been marketed to the public in such a bias and unethical way. One of the last NHS campaigns on it was to use pictures of children to guilt women into having a smear. This is just WRONG on so many levels. If the merits of smears is that great then that is the message that should be used, not one that emotionally blackmails women. The whole campaign is not only not properly informing women it also treating them with utter contempt by using a method which immediately plays on emotion and applies undue pressure.
You only have to read threads on MN to see the extent that the campaigns have had. Anyone who questions the effectiveness of smears is shot down and anyone who is anxious has it presented to them as a choice between risking their life and being somehow selfish and pathetic in not wanting a smear. Time and time again, I have seen NO debate on the actual reality which I do see on many other threads about healthcare. This just highlights the extent of the problem and how little women are questioning and feel able to question what they are being told.
I personally think that smears are probably a good thing - for those who make an informed decision.
But the truth is most women do not receive enough information to make an informed decision and many are effectively scared into or bullied into having one. Those who do make an informed decision are frequently disrespected, and have no option to properly remove themselves from the scheme and are lambasted by their peers. Its that bad that I feel the need to name-change to post this message.
Consent is only consent if you have a choice and are given unbiased informed and are not put under undue pressure to conform to what someone thinks you should do.
That is what is wrong with the smear screening and it needs to change. Sadly I do not see it changing anytime soon. If anything, the NHS is going further down this route and very few people are challenging it as the over riding belief is that more testing and screening in healthcare MUST be a good thing and that those who resist it, are in the wrong.
Unfortunately, its a lot more complicated than that and the needs and the differences of the individual need to be not only respected but actually recognised in the first place, rather than treating health as a series of anonymous and cold statistics.