It's just a nobbly bit of skin around my bum about the size of a pea maybe slightly smaller due to shape. It doesn't hurt, bleed or itch. I am not sure how long it has been there maybe post children??? And no I don't do bum sex or anything eww. I did have painful piles after ds2 could this still be them. I just want to push it back in so I have a nea bum hole. I really should name change for this 