i am so relieved. dd2 had an appointment yesterday with the cardiac team from harefield. and they have given her the all clear for heart. its just an innocent murmur which wont affect her at all. so now we can stop worrying and just get on with things. the docs had been so cagey in some ways about dd2, that i was getting worried. i know her dad has heart problems and they were being overly cautious because of that, but i am so happy.