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******The 36th TAMOXIFEN thread******

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NedSchneebly · 10/05/2013 20:02

You all out there? Pop this way!

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KurriKurri · 16/05/2013 21:41

Ned my lovely - link me to your just giving page - I must have missed it when I was away, when are you doing RFL? xx

I am wondering if the hair woman in my link has normal hair, but a very tall head?

DD has e-mailed me a youtube episode of Kitchen Nightmares with 'shouty people' on it - off to watch with my horlicks Grin

Copthallresident · 16/05/2013 21:46

Ned, x posted, testing 6 year olds? I think he may manage to be both a cock and a female part of the anatomy that also starts with a C, the one that naughty Topsy has plastered across Facebook Blush

NedSchneebly · 16/05/2013 21:50

kurri thanks lovely Smile Will PM you my linky. Am doing Race for Life this Sunday at Kingston Maurward, the agricultural college in Dorchester. Should be fun! Am doing it for all of you lovelies x x x

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NedSchneebly · 16/05/2013 21:54

X post. Its bollocks, copt All 5/6 year olds have to do this really crude assessment of whether kids can phonically decode/ read 40 real and made up words - made up ones like "scrood" or "pleme"- can they use their decoding skills to sound out the words? Its so crude and sometimes the brightest kids perform really badly because they can't get the reads around made up words. And the pass mark is 32/40 so not much margin for error. And any 6/7 year olds who failed it last year have to resit. Don'lt get me started Angry

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KurriKurri · 16/05/2013 21:55

Oh I have been to Kingston Maurwood Ned, (and my dad used to do things to do with bees there sometimes I think - he was a beekeeper) it's lovely there, have a lovely day - I will keep fingers crossed for warm but not too hot weather Smile

malteserzz · 17/05/2013 06:35

Morning all, agree totally about the phonics check. Often they can sound out the word but then they try to make it into a real word as that's what they're used to doing
Not a good nights sleep despite tablet, woke up at 3 and have only dozed since then I'm wondering if it's because I didn't eat much yesterday have lost my appetite for the first time
Off on a school trip today too
Hope you all have a good day x

amberlight · 17/05/2013 06:56

Overexcited here. Hired teachers for the new autism school being built. No mad phonics tests for us. But there's the small matter of the school being a flat site ....the units being built in Belfast and shipped over, and there being 3 months to get it running. And I have to drive past the hospital and hospice to get there, which is a bit eek.Mixed emotions. But worth it.
I'll put a brew on for people.

notJenkins · 17/05/2013 07:02

Good morning from me. Sunny day here and off for a walk round the harbour with the hounds. Making the most of my time before I am back to work full time.

Gigondas · 17/05/2013 07:14

Brew?

Morning all- had lovely meal at river cafe (anniversary proper is Sunday). Off to see dr lovely later to review pain meds.

Glad you teachers think phonics is bollox as I find it baffling and big gig struggles with some of made up words.

trice · 17/05/2013 07:30

I am very envious of your trip to river cafe Gig. Was it delicious? I hope dr lovely comes up with the goods.

My mum is coming over this morning. I am looking forward to it.

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/05/2013 08:33

ooh,River Cafe - how lovely !

topsyturner · 17/05/2013 08:45

Morning All

Don't lose any kids on the trip Malt Grin

Gigs dinner sounds lovely , what did you bring me back in the doggy bag ?

It's a beautiful sunny day here .
Hope it lasts , I've got washing to go out .

Still got Cancer of the Forehead Grin
And also coming down with pneumonia a cold .
Think I need comfort food .
Who's going to Reuben's for me then ?

Pig/dog has taken root by the living room window and is growling at any murderers one unfortunate enough to walk by ...

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/05/2013 09:49

poor topsy -will wine help (later,obviously ?)
Hope pig/dog can be a comfort...he's obviously looking out for you.
Have just made an appointment for T's prom wear hire fitting- I'm thinking a nice white jacket (though he is dreadfully messy) and he has fab new Converses to go with it so shouldn't feel too formal. There's an after prom party in a field at the back of a house in nearby village which he is contemplating...
This nausea thing is weird- why would it happen after nearly 8 months on chemo ?

Gigondas · 17/05/2013 10:43

I think so sometimes side effects can catch you when you have lower resistance either as tired, run down or as chemo effects build up . Try to keep eating and drinking as I know it's hard when don't feel like it.

Afraid no room in doggy bag for lovely ice cream, langoustine risotto or asparagus Grin. Even managed a Wine (don't tell dr lovely ).

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/05/2013 10:49

mmm,langoustine risotto -how delicious.
You might be right about chemo build up gig
Am meeting editor of joke book to hand over my artwork -we're having coffee at Waitrose -that might help.

smee · 17/05/2013 10:52

Phonics test would have been roundly failed by my DS am sure, but Gig more importantly what did you eat..?? Would love to go to River Cafe..

MAS, nausea's so v.horrid. Invades everything you do as it brings you down so. Could you call BCN and ask for advice? It might be as simple as changing a tablet. I used to chew mild gum and that seemed to help. Also nibbling on apricots and almonds, though have no idea why. Love the sound of DS's prom outfit. v.cool. Grin

Have a nice time with your mum, Trice.

Yay for Coorong nearly being qualified, though no rap on a Friday?! Shock

Topsy, headache's stress maybe? Can't be a coincidence your scan results are on Monday. Wine might be the antidote. x

Malt, hope the trip's somewhere warm and fun.

Sending little Copt good exam vibes. hope she's not too stressed.

I took a sleeping pill as was so fed up. Still woke up lots, but did get back to sleep more, so that's a relief. Had a weird dream that I was married to Stephen Fry.. I do like him, but clearly wrong. Grin

Gigondas · 17/05/2013 10:52

I think so sometimes side effects can catch you when you have lower resistance either as tired, run down or as chemo effects build up . Try to keep eating and drinking as I know it's hard when don't feel like it.

Afraid no room in doggy bag for lovely ice cream, langoustine risotto or asparagus Grin. Even managed a Wine (don't tell dr lovely ).

smee · 17/05/2013 10:53

x-posted. Mmmm... Good luck with Dr Lovely, Gig. Smile

MaryAnnSingleton · 17/05/2013 10:54

minty chewing gum is good...

Gigondas · 17/05/2013 10:56

Smee x posted - was v yum.

Topsy - pre Appt jitters are a bastard. Wine Orange men eurovision and firm seat on paranoia box for you. Am seeing onc on Tuesday to discuss radio but always anxious as wonder what will say (comes of having unpleasant surprise about needing neck op so no wonder paranoia flourishes).

smee · 17/05/2013 11:13

Forgot to ask Kurri, how's the shingles? Did the pills keep the pain at bay?

Amber, that's fab on the new school. When's it opening? Must be mighty stressful.

Copthallresident · 17/05/2013 11:45

Morning

Reuben's brekkie selection for topsy and bum on paranoia box for all.

Alarm just went off and woman's hour is on with annoying patronising woman going on about cancer and diet, blue green algae , magic mushrooms , it's not ok to eat chips, mars bars.......hmm Jennifer was humouring her. Underlying points about diet not wrong but as soon as people start being dogmatic I switch off. It was Sheila somebody or other? Though I went through a phase of being a bit extreme on diet so don't blame her. it is something you can do, when the treatment is such an assault. Friends and I spent a fortune on magic mushrooms but think other druggy ones would have done as much good Grin Jenny mentioned Manchester study between nutritionists and oncys, might check that out. Not really what I want to hear first thing Jenny

Bit of a late night / early morning with little Copt being anxious but actually just needed a little reassurance. It is English and she has really enjoyed the syllabus and even the revision plus it is open book.

mas perhaps body is telling you it doesn't like it. I got to the point where I felt sick just driving past the hospital . But could be one of the bugs going around , I would check with your team.

Mmm white jacket in after prom party in field might be a bit of a risk. When I turned up at 4am to pick Big Copt up from her prom the pavement outside the door was a war zone, bodies everywhere and attention seeking drama queens staging mega dramatics. Most of them had great time without taking it too far, sure T will but you can't rely on the others, it can be a bit messy......

gigs very jealous of river cafe, DH booked it not long ago then decided it was too expensive Angry he doesn't really enjoy expensive restaurants partly cos a lot of eating out with work so I don't get to enjoy them Hmm so I go with friends Grin

malt I couldn't eat much at all in first weeks after diagnosis, which was most out of character.

Ned and all. Phonics thing sounds as mumbo jumbo as new policy on extra time for those with learning difficulties. Little Copt had an early intervention in Year 2 \3 because look /see was never going to work for her and learnt to read with phonics but used phonics and the sense of the sentence and context to arrive at a real word so she would not have passed, possibly not even now... I could also get started on what he did to last years GCSE cohort, all those pupils coming out of all the schools around here, state and private , tight lipped and holding back tears. Also new jingoism History curriculum, undoing all the good that has been done in the development of the teaching of History in the last thirty years Angry my History Department is beyond angry specialising as it does in everything he is going to exclude, in fact most of the History now studied at universities is excluded from his silly curriculum so what sort of preparation will it be for university study, if that is , anyone has managed to stay interested in History after 11years of relentless chronology and facts..... But what would I know, I am clearly communist, and masters diss was on Chinese women in Shanghai in 20th c Shock Exactly who does he think is going to be impressed with all this? I dont know anyone. maybe a few Colonel Blimps who sit at home reeking of stale wee whilst getting overexcited reading the daily mail and telegraph?

One thing though, it has united most people, quite rightly in support of our wonderful teachers and education professionals, appreciated all the more for being thrown into relief by people who clearly do not give a damn about children.

amber your school sounds very exciting. Is it a free school?

amberlight · 17/05/2013 11:49

Gigs, aye re the oncoming rads appointment. Everything crossed for you, Topsy, and everyone else with forthcoming doings.

In theory should be packing for holiday tomorrow (the week in wild Worcestershire to crash out), except I'm not.

Smee, opening in September. It's fantastic. We're over numbers already and having to turn pupils away. If people are on Twitter, follow the Principal Fiona Veitch to find out what we're up to and when, including the photos. Can we build a school in three months? Of course we can!!

AshokanFarewell · 17/05/2013 11:50

MAS are you on anti sickness medication? I am constantly dosed up on them and lansoprazole otherwise I get lots of nausea. I hope it goes away soon! Prom outfit sounds fab.

gigs googled river cafe and it looks great, glad you enjoyed your meal and I hope Dr Lovely is helpful

smee Grin at dream, glad the sleeping tablets helped.

malt enjoy the trip!

topsy hope your forehead cancer goes away soon. Nice that pig/dog is trying to protect you I suppose Grin

trice have a lovely time with your mum

notJ hope you enjoyed your walk

amber yay for new teachers! :)

cop hope little cop's exam goes smoothly

KK hope you're feeling better this morning

My auntie has just gone home :( it's so lovely to see her and to have some different company.

I'm possibly going to Homebase later which will be today's outing. My ex (still can't get used to saying that :() is coming over to watch a film this evening.

I slept better last night and was only awake for two hours, which I used to browse clothes online. I am trying to make up my mind about this leopard print top. Any thoughts?

I'm trying to embrace my new lopsided figure Hmm as an opportunity to have a bit of a style overhaul. My shape has changed a lot so most of my clothes don't really fit/suit me anymore. I thought I'd be pleased to lose weight but I'm finding it a bit unsettling really. I think just because it is yet another change. But I think I will feel more positive about it when I'm exercising and a bit more toned up :)

Did anyone watch Eurovision semis yesterday? I thought Greece were brilliant!

I hope everyone is having a lovely morning :)

KurriKurri · 17/05/2013 11:50

Morning all, sitting on paranoia box for all who need it (and I have more than enough bum to go round). Did you say Brew amber? - yes please. Smile New school sound v.exciting - but hard work!

topsy - it's good Pig/dog has no clue who is a burglar and who isn't is very protective of your household Grin Old lady dog always behaves with embarrassing over familiarity to guests and tries to sit on their lap. One guy we had to stay once was just about to sit at the dinner table when she leapt into the chair he was going for. And he immediately said 'oh I'm so sorry is that her chair?' -no it isn't! she doesn't have a chair at the table, just thinks she ought to !!

MAS - I agree with chemo build up could be affecting you, but also you can just start getting a s/e you didn't have before (and I had several that I just had on one cycle then not again) and your body might be getting used to your nausea pills, - I think I had about 3 different types n the end - started with domperidone which worked for a couple of cycles then switched to the one that begins with 'o' I think, then onto cyclizine (which worked best for me) so def. ask to try something different. And I was told to just take the stuff regularly - don't wait until you feel sick, - pre empt it. Hope you feel better soon sweetie xx Love the sound of T's prom outfit - he will look v.cool.

Gig - dinner at River Cafe sound lovely, good luck with Dr Lovely Smile

Trice - have a great day with Mum.

Malt - I wish you a warm day and well behaved children for your trip.

NJ - have a nice walk with doggies.

Smee- are you having problems sleeping atm? - sorry to hear that it is miserable when you can't sleep.

Shingles are much the same - pretty painful - but maybe they would have been worse if no horse pills. The ones on my head hurt more but the rash is not so bad, the ones on my side aren't to bad pain wise but the rash is ugleeeeeeeeee and disgusting and seems to be increasing. I paint an attractive picture don't I? Grin
DD refers to me now as 'The old shingle weasel' - she is so caring Grin

love to all - good luck to exam DC (MIniCopt for hers, and does T also have one today? and any others)