Never stop all day and never rest !

[maltesers]

Will i burn out ? Will i get ill ? I am on the go 24/7. I have 3 kids, am a fitness instructor teaching 5 classes a week , help my partner run his new business and dont get all the sleep i need. Dp always wakes me up morning at 6.30 if not him then our 5 yr old. He disturbs me in the night either coughing,leaning on me , coughing, snoring, getting up to visit the loo, and so the list goes on. So tired. Most days there are not enough hours in the day.

Wondering what to do for the best. Enjoy being busy and would hate to have nothing to do except housework. Love to get out and about but will all this take its toll ?
Feeling at my worst tonight and shouldnt be on here should be in bed.
Any thoughts on the matter grately received. Thanks !

Maltesers, only mentioned this to my best friend today. getting a good nights sleep is the starting point, ( waiting for replies on here is so time consumming sorry )Also need to get others to help with the chores, and perhaps not be quite so house proud. You don't always have to have a neat house. Delegate is my opinion. No help, then no lifts or try ultimate, no sex. !

Maltesers,your resentment of your dp pours out of your every post.
Time for aserious renegotaition of household chores i think.

yes true Moondog. Am in serious dilemma about what to do with my life. Do i finish with dp or do i stay ? Cannot decide. Its like jumping off a cliff and not knowing where you are going to land. Feel embarrassed when mn folk notice how resentful i am of dp, but its not surprising . Tonight he had had a complete temper tantrum and tipped his dinner half onto the table and said he was bout to have a mental break down. God he is a headcase.

Maltesers, there will come the time when your dp begins to take his problems out in a more physical way, i.e. throwing things around, ranting at all and sundry, need to protect yourself and any little ones who arn't able to understand.