cop love the brown ribbon movement! Although I have to confess I got a bit grumpy when I got my chemo diary, my chemo is for breast or bowel and the breast bit was in pink and the bowel bit in a disgusting beige browny colour I do find the pink a bit overwhelming though, and it's on everything! It must be hard for men who get breast cancer as all the stuff related to it is so "girly". Personally my cancer experience has made me feel very unfeminine, almost not even human at times, like I was just a big walking bowel so I can't imagine breast cancer makes people feel very girly and pink either! It's a shame the hospitals are jumping on board with it too, I'm sure they mean well but it's not like they paint the colorectal wards brown or the prostate cancer rooms blue or anything.
I'd like to do some kind of fundraising walk after my treatment, to sort of mark the end of it all and give something back, but it took me ages to find one that wasn't women only, I want my dad to be able to come along too
I also know a couple of people who made their relative's cancer all about them by going on loads of Race for Life type events with her name on their backs and going on and on about how upsetting it was for them, when she was quite positive about it all and didn't want that kind of attention, and they weren't even close to her before her illness! She's well now and they've gone back to not really talking to her
Thanks for the article I shall have a read, and thanks for reminding me why I feel so crap, I have cheered up a bit as hopefully any rogue cells have been completely frazzled
gracie what kind of cake are you making? Hope it goes well. My ballet teacher used to tell my mum off as she was so rubbish at doing buns, I had to go early for exams and shows so that the teacher could do mine instead!
KK forgot to post yesterday, that sounds lovely about your dad. I'm glad you were able to feel close to him :) I'm not really sure what I believe about anything but a while after my Nana died I had a dream where she told me not to be sad as she had had a long and happy life and she was at peace now, it was very comforting and not like any dream I've ever had before :)
pen yes I think it's definitely partly fear, it's such a scary and unpredictable illness. My doctors keep saying how brave I am, I think they expect me to be weeping and wailing all over the place, but I'm quite matter of fact about it all. That's just how I am, it's hardly brave, it's not like I volunteered to have cancer so someone else didn't have to or anything like that! I think I've been guilty in the past of telling people how brave they are though
thenight your finger wagging may have worked, pouch has finally decided to calm down a bit. I am having a little procedure on Wednesday that should help it, plus it's under GA so at least I'll get a nice little sleep