Aargh thought about name changing but only have 5 mins til ds wakes up so no time for modesty and am not that well known anyway. Just as the title says really... I haven't felt the same during sex since having ds and he's 4 months now. Had an elcs so wasn't expecting any issues in that department as didn't even experience labour. Pelvic floor feels ok, I do exercises as often as I remember and it hasn't totally gone to pot or anything. I've read that breastfeeding causes dryness, could the pain just be down to that? Ie would it be normal to have pain while still feeding a lot or is this worth a doc visit? Even with lube I can barely stand it at all. Am just quite sad as we get few enough opportunities anyway and I can't even take it (literally!) when we do get a chance!