BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability ·
28/09/2012 15:20
I've already posted about this on our postnatal thread, but thought I'd try to get some advice here
I've had pain in my wrists, knee and ankle for a few months, wondered if it might be related to BFing so tried a few weeks of vitamins before seeing the doctor. He is quite sure that my joint pain is psoriatic arthritis, and he had a look at my scalp which is much much worse than it has been for ages (it cleared up completely in pregnancy), and said he woulnt be surprised if I lost my hair. He also had a quick look at the rest of my psoriasis (its spread like a bugger) and prescribed a different cream for me to try.
Have to have blood tests to confirm how to treat my joints, which may confirm that its that, but may not (half of cases have a particular gene, I do believe), and see a dermatologist (which will of course take months)
But what am I supposed to do in the meantime? First thing in the morning I really struggle with the kids :( luckily cause of DHs shift pattern at the moment, he's only not there two mornings at a time. But from Novemeber, hes back on 5 day weeks (still shifts)
I already have depression (not PND, long term)
And apart from that, I could be disabled and bald :( I'm only 26 and I feel like an old woman
my poor kids, my poor DH, and poor me :(