Anyone else with this 'problem'?

[EmbarrassedOne]

Have changed my name for this as it's a little embarrassing.....

Since having children I've found that I don't get as 'excited' as I used to. Not lack of libido, though that's not great' but there's no...'moisture' there. I know it's not just DP not doing the job right as I can have an orgasm by myself but still nothing. Is this normal?

I don't think this is normal. I would wonder if this might be related to hormonal issues? Or are you maybe dehydrated?

Is there no moisture, or just not as much as previously?

I think it is normal to have less moisture. Just use loads of lube.

Absolutely none.
Am not preg. b/f and have no noticable hormonal imbalance (pms etc).

We have to use loads of KY every time

I would go see your GP. There has to be a reason for this. And it can't be good for your skin in that area, there is normally a small amount of lubrication there to keep it in a good state, iyswim.

I think this may be a normal post-childbirth effect, but it is certainly treatable. It sounds like estrogen might help? Here is a relevant link. Hope this helps.