I should really sort myself out health-wise before trying to get pregnant shouldn't I?

[tigana]

I have a crap back and dodgy pelvic floor.
This will not improve with pregnancy will it? I know this...I have been pregnant. So why can't I get off my arse and do some pilates/kegels? ( apart from right now...now I can't do them cos my back in in spasm [grimace])

I am with you there.

I need to do the same, but I feel I should lose weight first for it to be more effective.

So I am doing neither at the moment - just sitting wolfing my way through an Easter egg .

oh yes, losing weight would be handy too.
Sigh.
Maybe tomorrow...