Hi, I know this is quite an old post but I was born 32 years ago with a cleft lip.
I haven't had any infections or illness in association with it. No ear probs etc.
The only problem I had was dental. This was only in the form of a supernummary (extra) tooth.
Have you tried CLAPA? Cleft lip & palate association.
The head office number is 0207 431 0033
email : [email protected]
website : clapa.mcmail.com.
They have regional offices and I am sure they will give you the relevant details of your local one.
Don't much remember my experiences with GP etc, only that I collected all my notes a few years ago & I was very well looked after, from these notes!
Can I ask where your son had his op?
Please feel free to ask any questions & I will be happy to answer if I can. (am a qualified dental nurse too, so may be able to advise on dental grounds too)
Good Luck